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High school teacher Sarah Giddings stayed home on Friday after new online threats and nervous nerves forced her school and others in Southeast Michigan to close.

Giddings, 39, comes from a family of educators who, along with school staff, students and their parents across the country, have become unwitting participants in a recurring American nightmare.

Copycat threats rise since Tuesday’s shooting at Oxford High School, according to CNN affiliates WJRT and W X Y Z. A 15-year-old sophomore is accused of killing four students in the halls of Oakland County School, about an hour from where Giddings teaches English and social studies.

It was the deadliest on a U.S. K-12 campus since 2018 and the 32nd school shooting since Aug. 1, according to a CNN tally.

“Sometimes it feels like we’re going from crisis to crisis and we’re in this constant state of anxiety,” Giddings said.

Legions of teachers, school administrators, staff and students have been emotionally scarred by rampages which, according to the authors of a new book on mass shootings, have become “routine occurrences in our lives”.

“For the younger generation, it’s even worse,” psychologist Jillian Peterson and sociologist James Densley wrote in “The Violence Project: How to Stop a Mass Shooting Epidemic.”

“Born in the early years of the 21st century, America’s youngest, from high school to high school seniors, have never known a world without mass killings,” according to the book, published in September.

“More than half of American teenagers worry about a shooting at their school, and a lifetime of active shooting drills, searches of lockers and locked school doors has engendered in them an overwhelming fear of imminent death.”

The short- and long-term psychological impact goes beyond the survivors of the shootings and those who mourn the dead.

“What’s really overwhelming is the magnitude of the ripple effects of these types of shootings — just the number of people who are affected,” Peterson told CNN. “And for some of them, it’s for life.”

Oakland County Sheriff Michael Bouchard echoed those sentiments during a Saturday press briefing, when reporters asked how sheriff’s deputies responding to Tuesday’s shooting were doing.

“I was on the scene when there were still children who had died,” he said, “but those who were going when it happened, and they had to pass them, devastating.”

Bouchard said specialists were flown in to help deputies deal with the bloodshed they witnessed.

“They will never be the same again,” Bouchard said. “I told them we needed them to heal themselves, their families and the community, but we also needed them back on the front lines.”

“It’s so hard to watch”

Ethan Crumbley was charged as an adult with terrorism, murder and other charges in Tuesday’s shooting north of Detroit that also left seven injured.

Crumbley’s parents, in a rare move, were each charged with four counts of manslaughter. the the couple pleaded not guilty Saturday, hours after an hour-long search led to their arrest at a Detroit warehouse.

James and Jennifer Crumbley were criminally negligent and contributed to a dangerous situation that resulted in the four deaths, according to Oakland County District Attorney Karen McDonald.

James Crumbley bought the gun four days before it was used in the shooting, McDonald said. Ethan Crumbley was with him and later called the semi-automatic handgun “my new beauty” on social media. Jennifer Crumbley called the gun her son’s “new Christmas present” in her own social media post, according to McDonald.

Prosecutors said in court that surveillance video showed Crumbley with a backpack and then a minute later leaving a bathroom with a gun drawn. He started shooting as the students ran for cover.

The rampage claimed the life of 17-year-old Madisyn Baldwin; Tate Myre, 16; Hana St. Juliana, 14; and Justin Shilling, 17, officials said.

“It’s like the same nightmare repeats itself over and over and over and over in exactly the same way,” Peterson said. “It’s so hard to watch.”

Filming follows a familiar script

Tuesday’s horror was eerily similar to previous tragedies.

Aiden Page, a senior, told CNN he heard two loud bangs. Her teacher, who was in the hallway, ran into the classroom. A bullet pierced a desk which the 17-year-old and other students used to barricade the door. It wasn’t a drill, he knew that.

“I was like, OK, he’s a shooter,” he said.

“We caught calculators,” Page added. “We grabbed scissors…just in case the shooter came in and we had to attack him.”

Peterson and Densley have built a comprehensive database of mass shooters known as The Violence Project. Based on interviews with perpetrators as well as survivors and families of victims, they wrote:

We turned off the lights and practiced throwing away our makeshift weapons – chairs, sharpened pencils, staplers, textbooks, filing cabinets, canned goods…

Many young students are crying. The older ones will text their last farewells to their parents who, in return, will flood the headmaster and the police with frantic calls. Then, when it’s over, it’s back to your regular programming, as if nothing had happened.

Page said some classmates cried. Others tried to lend their support. They hunkered down behind desks. A teacher who ran from the hallway when the shooting began called the mobile phone of a student in her class, where a teenager had been shot in the leg.

“The very first thing in my head was, ‘This is actually happening,'” Page said. “I’m going to text my family to say I love them in case I die.”

He added: “It’s definitely going to be weird coming back [to school] especially knowing that people have been injured and… there are a few students who have died.”

‘How do they get back to school?’

Peterson and Densley wrote that “emotional responses to mass shootings are dulled by repetition. Daily tragedy becomes ambient noise until, finally, we become numb to pain.”

For JaVon Pittman, 17, the trauma is still too fresh. He hid under desks with classmates on Tuesday after barricading the door with a table and turning out the lights, he told CNN.

“Is this a dream? he remembered thinking. “We’re all just asking, ‘Is this a drill?’ “

His younger brother, Jonte, was at school but managed to escape. JaVon texted her: What’s going on?

“It’s a shootout, a real shootout,” his brother replied, according to JaVon.

JaVon then called his father, JaMar Pittman. He whispered on the phone what his brother had reported.

“Someone is shooting up the school,” JaVon added.

“Keep calm…I’m going now,” his father replied.

The lockdown, of course, would prevent their reunion for some time.

Guilt feelings took over.

“You try to be there for your kids,” JaMar Pittman said. “You can’t be there for your kids and you get nervous. And whether you’re their leader, their father, the superhero, whatever. You can’t save your kids. It’s devastating.”

His wife, Vontysha Pittman, said she tried to stay strong.

“It’s just a horrible feeling to know that as parents we can’t do anything for them but pray,” she said last week, breaking down.

“I have to try to be calm for them,” she said. She is grateful that her sons are home. “There are relatives [where] this room is going to be empty.”

Javon also broke down remembering close friends Shilling and Myre, who were fatally shot at school. They were like brothers to him, he says.

McDonald, the county attorney, last week addressed the single count of terrorism causing death against Ethan Crumbley – a rare charge for a school shooting.

“Like all the other kids that were in that building…we need to have an appropriate consequence that speaks for the victims who weren’t killed or injured,” she told CNN. “They were affected. How do they go back to school?”

Many students can’t eat or sleep, McDonald said.

“Their parents are sleeping next to them and we must not ignore that,” she added. “There are obviously four children who were murdered and many more injured, but more than 1,000 were also victims.”

Another blow in an already difficult year

The psychological trauma as well as the feeling of guilt and loss can be long-lasting.

“There’s a lot of treatment and bereavement work and mental health care that this school and this community desperately needs,” Peterson said.

“There will definitely be children with” post-traumatic stress disorder. “It impacts everyone differently, depending on your past experiences, your own coping mechanisms and your own psychology.”

Most communities never fully recover from tragedies, Peterson said.

“We pretend we do… The public awareness around these events is getting shorter and shorter, I feel… If you don’t have kids in school or you you’re not a teacher, a lot of people don’t realize how serious this has become and how much weight we place on our children to fight this battle for us.”

Giddings, the Washtenaw County teacher, said her husband, Daniel, and twin sister, Kelley, also teach. Remote learning as well as fights over mask and vaccine mandates have taken a heavy toll on educators.

“We couldn’t predict a global pandemic, but we can predict what happens when a teenager brings a gun to school. We can and must do better,” her sister wrote in a social media post. social.

In another post, the Giddings twin wrote: “Sleepless night as I toss and fro with thoughts of Oxford HS in my mind. 20 mins away. I know friends and family who work and live there, like most of my students. Being a teacher in 2021 is… quite a mess. It’s not right.”

Giddings said the shooting dealt “one of the biggest bodily blows in terms of social and emotional stress” in an already difficult school year.

“So many teachers play the role of advocates and … allow students to let off steam and do their best to make students feel safe and that takes a lot of emotional bandwidth,” said Giddings, a teacher for 15 years. .

“We have colleagues, friends who work there,” she added, referring to Oxford High. “And it was hard not only to sleep, but it’s also hard to talk to my own kids about it.”

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